enough to destroy the beauty of something. Certain things are a strict ‘no’ and should never be done to your partner. If done, it can leave a deep and ugly impact.
The following are some of those, which you must definitely
avoid the following
1. Don’t Break Trust
Trust is the foundation on which the entire relation is built.
Mutual trust is extremely necessary to carry on a relationship forward. Avoid doing such things that would break one’s trust. Once trust is broken, a relationship would not take much time to crash down. Try to maintain
the faith that you have in your partner.
2. Never Interrupt Too Much
Everyone has got a different way to lead life. Don’t try to poke your nose into anything. Interrupting too much can irritate your partner. Obviously too much interruption could
make a person feel as if he or she is leading a captive life.
Give enough freedom so that they too can satisfy their own needs in their own way.
3. Don’t talk very harshly
How can you even think of doing so? Your partner is the
one who would be there always to stay beside you. Do
show the respect that they deserve. Whatever be the
situation, it is always better to talk and settle down matters
peacefully. Talking harshly would not only worsen up
things but it will also make you worthless to get any
respect. No one would like to spend their life with someone
who cannot talk in a respectful manner. Harsh and rude
talk can also affect your partner emotionally.
4. Don’t disappoint in times of need
In times of urgency everyone would try to look for the
person they trust the most. Feel lucky that you are the one
at the top of the list, so don’t disappoint your partner in
times of need. Make yourself available at any cost. That is
the most crucial time when the worth of a relationship is
tested. If you cannot be available physically, then do stay
in touch with your partner with other means of
communication, so that your partner never feels alone.
Give them courage and bring back the confidence in them
to face whatever situation they are into.
5. Never lie
What iTo build up a strong and healthy relationship a lot of things are needed to be kept in mind. Everything is to be done very carefully and patiently, because slight scratch is
enough to destroy the beauty of something. Certain things is needed than to lie and welcome problems in the
coming future? No matter how cruel the truth is, don’t
hesitate to speak out. Always remember the famous quote
that a stitch in time saves nine. A harsh truth would
definitely disappoint your partner for a while but there
would be still hope and faith remaining in your relationship.
Your partner would not hesitate to bank upon you in the
coming days. Also the faith in the relationship would
remain the same.
6. Don’t force to do something
Give enough freedom to your partner to choose and do
something according their wish. Give your partner the
required space. Never force your partner to do things as
per your wish. Don’t force to do things on which she would
not agree. You cannot act bossy to someone. If you don’t
like something which your partner does then just speak up
with valid reasons and leave the rest to their own
conscience. But believe one thing that your partner would
definitely stop doing things that you hate.
7. Don’t torture
Avoid torturing physically and mentally. Don’t be mean and
commit such inhuman crimes. You don’t own anybody. It
is always better to deviate peacefully and walk along
different roads instead of carrying on the burden together.
8. Stop criticizing
Don’t thrust your personal point of view into everything
that your partner does. It is not at all good to keep
criticizing about something. Do inoculate and practice the
art of adjustment and also how to appreciate the thoughts
of other persons too.
9. Never break promises
Why to promise something which you cannot keep. Their
always exists an emotional bond in every relationship and
when promises are broken, the emotional attachments are
strained too. Next time do think twice that whether you will
be able to keep your promise or not. It is not good to hurt
someone’s expectations.
10. Don’t recall the past
Bury all the past stories that your partner has and ensure
that it never pops up in your present and future. The
person in front of today is the original one and you need to
accept the fact with open arms. We definitely cannot
change your past but we can improve our present and the
coming future.
