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Sunday, 2 October 2016

HOW TO GET HER INTO A REAL INTENSE CONVERSATION: INCREASING THE BUBBLE



I was chatting with a colleague not too long ago – a fellow day gamer. He wanted to know how I got instant dates pretty much whenever I asked. He was having to really persist most of the time to get a girl to follow him, and instant dates were not very common for the guy.
Most of the time when we approach a girl, we'll find that she might have several different scripts that may be counterproductive to getting into bed with her that day. Only going for the women who have the same script as us is quite inefficient in the long run. This was one the main things I kept in mind when I was revamping my process at the start of this year.
So, after trying out several things, I've settled on a method that works best. Up until quite recently, instant dates were not a regular thing for me either. I would basically have to look for girls who were already somewhat attracted, and it would take a fair number of approaches to get any kind of regularity.
These days I can get it done efficiently with much less walking around and approaching woman after woman.
And more often than not, I can choose my woman from afar and get her to follow me on an instant date without a lot of hassle.
Today, I'm going to share my best tips for achieving this.

THE BUBBLE OF INTRIGUEBefore I get into the nitty-gritty and cover what exactly it is I say – and what you can say in your interactions with women – there are a few things you should be aware of.
The second most prevalent female sexual fantasy that almost all woman share is the desire to get together with a mysterious man – a man who she just can't seem to completely figure out. You see it again and again in movies, music, books, and TV shows. Each time she feels like she's getting close, he says something that makes her look at him in a completely different way. Again and again.
As seducers, we can mimic this in our interactions with women. You see, one thing I've found out time and time again, especially in the last several months, is if you get a woman to the point of intense curiosity – where she wants to hear your full story – not only will she try and stop you from leaving, she will also follow you somewhere else just to get a chance to figure you out.
This is what I and other seducers call the bubble of intrigue, or “hard bubble” for short. And before I progress things to an instant date, I make sure that this bubble is established.

PACING HER INTO YOUR REALITYSome weeks ago I met this  at the bus stop downtown (PH). Even though we'd just been talking for a couple minutes , she was already asking me casual questions. So she was a bit curious about me, but not quite curious enough to drop what she was doing at the moment and follow me somewhere else.
I needed to harden the bubble of intrigue – and quickly. Her bus could come at any moment and she'd have to leave in a hurry. So I had to pace her out of her agenda of catching her bus, and into my reality using nothing but my words. I should mention that this skill isn't really for beginners who are still working up the nerve to approach women. To pull this off, ideally you should have a fair bit of cold approach experience under your belt. The payoff is huge, but it is quite a complex form of frame control.
It is key to understand that there are several specific ways to do this. I learned a few more last month, in fact, but each has at least one thing in common. Once you understand these things, coming up with your own methods is quite simple. Here they are:
  • You set up the conversation so that she asks you questions. Make her curious first

  • You use your answers to demonstrate attractive qualities (there are several options to choose from: wise, deep, funny, sexual, etc.).

  • You answer her questions without fully answering them to maintain the intrigue.


    You give her an emotional story or scenario that her mind can fall into.

    • It needs to seem like you did this by accident. You don't want to appear like you're picking her up.

    If you can consistently inject these concepts into your conversations with women, it's at this point that you find that, more often than not, girls are all too happy to ditch their obligations and follow you elsewhere. And on top of that, you'll be in complete control of the direction of the conversation, which sets you apart from the majority of men that she'll ever meet.
    I understand that this is quite a lot to process in one go. It definitely took me a while to wrap my head around it. So I'll try to break it down as simply as possible. And I'll also share some examples.
    The girl at the bus stop, after I had made her a little bit curious about my background, asked me this question:
    “What made you move here?”You'll know that giving her a straight-up answer is actually counterproductive. And many day gamers will answer this question with a clever remark, or maybe something overtly flirty. While that's okay, if we want to consistently derail her script, we need something better than that.Here's what I said instead:“Well, I sort of got tired of seeing the same faces over and over again... so I decided it was time to take things in a new direction.”First of all, my answer did not provide any real clarification as to why I actually moved here. It could have been for work, for further education... it could even have been because they issued a warrant for my arrest back home. So the question of why I am here right now is still an unsolved mystery.And, on top of that, I provided an emotional scenario that almost everybody can relate to: a distaste for the status quo and a pursuit of the new and exciting.
    ALLOW HER TO “FEEL”As men, we typically tend to speak in a concise manner, centered on delivering facts. We like to talk about the who and what. Who did what? What happened exactly? Who was there? And so on. But to a woman, speaking this way is the equivalent of holding a blow dryer in front of her crotch, and setting it to high without any heat.;">Women are far more concerned with the how and the why. Just listen to a group of girls describe the events of the previous weekend. As men, we'd be thinking along the lines of “Can you just get to the POINT already?” because that's just how we prefer to communicate.
    It's no surprise that most women find most men boring from a conversational standpoint.>Women don't want us to just get to the point. Instead, they want to FEEL the emotions.
    So what we do as seducers is provide her with a story or a scenario that allows her to feel certain emotions. A interesting concept that rings true time and time again is as follows:Describe the emotion, and she will feel it. It really is that simple.One of the reasons that music is so popular is that a song can be chock-full of emotion, everything from love to anger, arousal to apathy. People want to escape the monotony of day-to-day life and just, even if it's for only a moment, slip into a place where nothing else really matters. Music allows us to do this, and don't get me started on TV shows and movies....So, if you can work a bunch of mini-stories charged with certain emotions and imagery into your conversations with women, you'll notice that the way they look at you starts to change, radically.Let me give you an example. Let's say we have two separate guys, both day gamers. And for simplicity's sake, we'll call them Joe and Pat. Now, Joe doesn't know a whole lot about intriguing women and using emotional imagery. But our friend Pat here is already quite adept at this particular skill. Here's how their conversations with women might look:Girl: So, what do you for fun?
    Joe: Well, when I'm not out of town clubbing with Wizkid, I like to take the time to chat up girls on the street.
    Girl: [laughs] Oh really? You know Wizkid?
    Joe: Oh yeah, we go way back, since his Univerisity Dropout album. I helped with a few of the songs.
    So, this is actually not too bad; it's funny and lighthearted. But, as we already know, drawing laughter is not really the best way to go about seducing her, unless of course she already finds you attractive. But anyone who's done day game for a while will know that this isn't always the case. So, for a higher chance of success, it's important for us to get her mind involved:
    Girl: So, what do you for fun?
    Girl: Of course I am... tell me!
    Pat: Okay... do you ever get those moments where you’re just having so much fun that you just completely lose track of time?
    Girl: Oh yeah... I remember once I was celebrating my sister’s birthday and we ended up partying until the sun came up! But what is it that you do for fun? I want to know.

    Right off the bat we can see a difference in the two interactions. At this point in the interaction, the girl still doesn't know what Pat does for fun. But because of the emotional scenario he provided her with, we can see that she already sees him in a different light. She's almost desperate to know just what Pat's story is. This is an example of hard bubble.
    Here's another example – from my interaction with the girl at the bus stop.
    Me: So, what's something you do that you REALLY enjoy?
    Her: I love to dance.
    Me: Cool... hmm. What is it about dancing that you like?
    Her: I just like being completely tuned out and feeling the music in my body.
    Me: I know what you mean... I'm not much of a dancer, but when I'm working on a portrait, there's a moment where I'm completely immersed in the moment. Time flies by and every bone in my body is focused on the canvas.
    Her: Yeah... I love that feeling. Are you an artist?
    I used another emotional scenario here in response to her story about what she feels like when she's dancing. It's always good to let women feel as though you share a couple similarities (but not too much... we still want to keep the intrigue up!).At the same time, I let the girl at the bus stop know (accidentally... or so it seemed) that I dabble in the visual arts. It's important that this seems like it came out by accident, because it's never good to brag, and it’s usually off-putting to show off your talents in a seduction. But if you can set things up where she just happens to naturally stumble on interesting facts about you, then this is very attractive.There are a lot more examples I could give, probably more than a dozen, but these should be enough to get you started. I wouldn't want to overwhelm anyone with too much information, since this is already a fairly advanced topic.Just remember the underlying concepts:
  • Continue to make her curious

  • Let her stumble on a new side of you

  • Don't answer her questions plainly

  • Allow her to feel emotions

  • Let all of this happen naturally

    • Pick one or two of these to work on for your next day game session. It would help to sit down and think up a few sentences you can use in the field. Perhaps you practice photography as a hobby, or have an interest in music. Actually taking the time to work these aspects of yourself into conversations while sticking with the underlying concepts will do wonders for your game.All the top verbal seducers, went through phases like these.Eventually you'll get to the point where it's automatic; you'll be doing all of these things without even thinking about it. And the times where you had to persist to get compliance will feel like a distant memory.
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    ONE LAST QUESTION...Back to the bus stop story... this girl and I ended up on a short adventure. She forgot about the fact that her mother was waiting for her back at home. She forgot about the fact that she was in a long-term relationship. In the moment, none of that even mattered. We took a bus together to a park uptown to “check out the scenery.”We sat on a bench, side by side, and she looked me right in the eyes, smirked, and leaned in towards me. She put her hand on my thigh and, in a quiet voice, asked me one last question: “Tell me, Femi... how often do you have adventures with girls?”I smiled to myself... as I really couldn't help it, since I already knew what I was going to say.
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    Monday, 26 September 2016

    HOW TO HANG OUT WITH A GIRL {AND KEEP IT SEXY}


    As you might expect from our three big mistakes men make that make “hanging out” with girls not work out so well for them when it comes to getting said girls into their beds, the inverse of these – the three things you really want to do – are what makes you able to hang out with a girl and stumble casually, effortlessly, and naturally into bed.
    Here they are – the three (3) things you must do if you want to use the “hang out date” and have it end well:
    1. Be exciting, not “friendly”
    2. Escalate her investment
    3. Get the timing right

    Here’s the skinny on each.

    This is the primary problem of new guys just starting out: they can’t be anything but friendly for the lives of them.This is the big thing that lands them into the friend zone, too.When you combine “be exciting, not friendly” with “escalate her investment”, you rule yourself right out of the friend zone.
    A girl might tell you you’re friends.
    But when she does it with you, it will be in the same way that the girl tells the sexual man who is leading her and calling the shots that, “You know we are just friends,” even as she submits to his advances and begins to kiss him back and touch him.
    The kind of men women hang out with in non-platonic ways do the following things with them:

  • These men flirt with girls



  • They tease girls



  • They banter with girls



  • They build sexual tension with girls



    • They make their interactions all about interpersonal fun and excitement... fun and excitement between these two people.
    What do regular guys do? They try to concoct some sort of external fun:

  • Fun places to go



  • Fun things to do



  • Fun people to meet


    • ... all of which says something very clear about them: “I’m not so fun myself, so let me find some other fun things that will interest you,” perhaps, or, “I don’t think our connection is very strong yet so let’s meet in public because I know you don’t trust me.”
    The cool guy? The one she laughs with, gets turned on by, and ultimately goes to bed with – maybe even eases into a relationship with?
    He doesn’t do that stuff so much. He doesn’t need that stuff so much.
    Because his source of fun and excitement is his own personality, and his interactions with her. He creates fun out of thin air – just add him and her.And most of that fun and excitement is created through flirting, intrigue, and sexual innuendo.
    This is how two opposite sex adults have real fun.
    Whether it’s the initial banter he has with her in person or over the phone before telling her to come hang out, or it’s what they do while kicking back in his bachelor pad, he is creating fun with her by flirting with her, teasing her, bantering with her, and just generally enjoying himself with her ;her and gets to know her as well too, of course; a balance of flirting and connection is what works best).
    That’s why a girl will opt to just hang out with a fun and exciting guy who:

  • Flirts with her and



  • Banters with her and



  • Gets to know her and



  • Connects with her and



  • Compliments her genuinely in between



  • Busting her stones and



  • Creates tension then



  • Releases that tension then



  • Builds up more tension


    • ... any day over the less-interesting guy who wants to take her ice-skating or bowling. While that guy shakes his head and says, “Women don’t make sense – I offered her a way more enjoyable time that that lazy dude who just wants to sit around with her,” the first guy knows: women don’t want the external bells and whistles; they want crackling interpersonal interaction.
    If you want to know how to hang out with a girl as effortlessly as possible: it’s not about being friendly or nice. It’s not about finding fun things to do or fill the time with. It’s about being fun, by creating fun between you and her.
    In other words: the kind of man a woman hangs out with without ever chucking him into the ‘platonic guy pals’ box (and even eventually goes on to sleep with) is the guy she could be trapped alone with in a 6’x6’ box with nothing inside except the two of them, and she’d end up having the time of her life anyway because this is a man who creates experiences without toys, places, or props.


    As you’re no doubt well aware if you’ve been a reader here for sometime, making progress toward physical intimacy is all about her investment, not yours.The greater the investment asked for, the more a woman needs to feel that you are:
  • Valuable, and



  • Attainable


    • ... first. This is why a man who is highly adept with women can tell girls, “Hey, let’s just hang out,” and the girl bites. It’s also why a guy she likes and is comfortable with (say, someone she met on her college dorm room floor, or her neighbor she always crosses paths with in her apartment building) can pull this off even if he isn’t yet an über-player if they happen to be in one of those conducive-to-hanging-out situations where “hanging out” is not as big of an investment on her part (because it’s more ‘normal’).A big part of the reason that it’s reasonably common for many college students to get laid in college quite a bit, even if they didn’t take on that many partners before and won’t take on that many after, is because of the comfort, familiarity, and straightforward logistics living in a university provides. You see the same effect on things like group tours abroad, or if you live in an apartment complex geared toward young adults.If she judges you sufficiently valuable for her tastes – and value includes things like:
  • Your fundamentals



  • Your social status



  • Your dominance


    • ... and she judges you sufficiently attainable to her as a prospective lover – and she isn’t otherwise conservative or sexually fearful or grooming you as her next boyfriend – you can often get her over to hang out directly at your place as early as the first time you meet up.re are personality / lifestyle exceptions to this. e.g., the professional woman who does not “hang out” and doesn’t socialize much and is always on the girl. Even if you are the coolest, most attractive man in the world, telling her you want to “hang out” will often get you met with confused skepticism, followed by a suggestion: “Er, you want to just ‘hang out’? You mean like not do anything? How about we head downtown instead?” This can just be because she’s used to being on the go and “doing something” all the time and isn’t the sort to just switch off, kick back, and enjoy downtime. Most women’s lives aren’t nearly this hectic, though.Getting her to come over to your place to hang out requires her to be pretty comfortable with you first much of the time. However, if you’ve got your loose ends tied up, all this usually means is:A good, solid 5- to 10-minute interaction when you first meet her

  • Usually a phone call at some point after you’ve texted a bit


    • During both of these, of course, you’ve been flirting, bantering, building a bit of a connection (but not too deep... save that for the hang out... or maybe even after you’re already lovers if there’s enough of an “it’s on” vibe there when you’re hanging out and going deeper risks derailing that).You’ve also been escalating investment.How do you do that? Any number of ways:
  • Screening her and having her qualify herself



  • Using various small compliance tests



  • Finding ways for her to say “yes”



  • Maintaining frame control


    • Throughout these two (or a few more if you like... but two is usually all you need) interactions, you’ve been having a lot of fun flirting with her... but you’ve also been raising her investment levels.As you proceed, and she becomes more and more at ease following your lead, the investment of her coming over to just hang out with you becomes an easier and easier thing for her to do.there, continually escalating her investment (now including getting her comfortable with youtouching her, since you’re in-person now) both keeps you out of the friend zone and builds tension and sexual intrigue fast.That’s because she doesn’t put in work for her platonic male friends. THEY put in work for HER.If there’s a man she is flirting with... and bantering with... and having a good time with... and she is investing in him... following his lead... and doing what he asks her to... that man is no platonic friend to her.He is a man she is in the midst of courtship rituals with. The two of them are preparing to mate.He is the magician, and she is entranced.#3: Get the Timing Right
    Here’s the last one that guys mess up trying to pull off the “hang out with a girl and casually hook up with her” bit:getting the timing off.Two ways that goes awry:
    • Waiting too long and letting attraction expire
    • Jumping the gun and moving too aggressively, too soon
    We won’t dwell on the first because we’ve covered it all over the site plenty. If you’re new here or need a refresher, however:
  • Move Faster



  • Escalation Windows



  • Attraction Has an Expiration Date



  • Quick Escalation to Sex: It’s All About the Windows


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    But let’s talk about the second point.Normally I advise you to err on the side of being overbold; if you’re unsure what to do, forge ahead.Take the bold move.Make something happen.
    Women are a hundred times more forgiving of men who move too aggressively forward with them than they are with men who do not move forward aggressively enough. If you must miss the mark, miss on the side of being over-aggressive.
    Yet, doing a super casual hang out date with a girl requires you to be more or less on-the-mark with your timing with girls, with a slimmer margin for error.
    That’s because:Your timing must be right for her to agree to a hang out – because if she isn’t completely comfortable with you, she’ll push to schedule a more conventional date instead

  • Your timing must be right to escalate during a hang out – she showed up expecting a horny man ready to make moves on her immediately, and she showed up prepared to defend against it or leave (unless she showed up super horny too), so you need to wait until she’s set those defenses aside, has settled in, and is comfortable with you and ready and waiting for it to happen... but hasn’t waited so long that she’s given up and gone cold


    You can do things imperfectly and still get dates. Yet getting girls over to hang out takes a bit more finesse in most normal environments (though is rather easier in places like university, travel abroad, etc., where most people aren’t rushing around busy, have lots of free time, and everyone’s already hanging out with everybody else – so take advantage should you find yourself in such places).

    • That’s why I list this one as “rather advanced”, unless you happen to be in one of those places where “hanging out” is a more everyday occurrence.So how do you get the timing down right?Here’s how:
  • On your phone call with her, either:


    1. Ask her to come over and hang out on a high point (usually, she is laughing and clearly really enjoying talking to you), or
    2. End the call on a high point, and text her later on or the next day asking if she wants to head over and hang out

  • On the date, keep flirting and keep escalating her investment until she is either super close to you physically, or gives you some clear signals to proceed (then act on those signals, of course!)


    • Let’s set out some examples for the invite:Asking Her Out on the Phone[6 or 7 minutes in, phone call]
    You: ... and thanks to those neighbors I decided I would never live above old people in an apartment building ever again.
    Her: [laughing hard]
    You: Ever had a downstairs neighbor like that?
    Her: No, thank God!
    You: You’re fortunate. Hey, you should head over and we’ll hang.
    Her: Well, I’ve got to finish a few things up right now but I might be free later.
    You: Cool. Let’s plan on hanging later. Say 6 o’clock? I’m near Deacon Street and Rosecrans at the Edgewood Apartments.
    Her: Cool! I’ll text you when I’m on my way.
    You: Perfect. See you in a bit.
    Chatting on the Phone, Texting Her to Hang Later
    [6 or 7 minutes in, phone call]
    You: ... and thanks to those neighbors I decided I would never live above old people in an apartment building ever again.
    Her: [laughing hard]
    You: Ever had a downstairs neighbor like that?
    Her: No, thank God!
    You: You’re fortunate. All right then; think it’s about time I moseyed on back to work.
    Her: Okay. Good luck with work.
    You: Ciao, Mona.
    Her: Bye!
    [the next day, via text]
    You: Mona, I just scavenged the most incredible chip dip in the world from our office kitchen. Let’s hang tonight and share it.
    Her: Haha, used office dip? Mmm...
    You: You’ll understand when you try it. When do you get off work
    Her: I think I should be free around 7.
    You: Cool. I’m just off of Deacon and Rosecrans – the Edgewood Apartments. Bring chips if you have them or we can grab at the corner store nearby.
    Her: I’ll text when I’m on my way.
    You: See you in a bit.
    Alternate: if you’re socializing with her in social circle and she’s seeming quite warm to you, you can just say, “Hey, we should hang out some time.” She’ll say yes, and you can say, “Cool, I’ll text you,” and take her number. Then just text her to find out when she’s free and see if she wants to come hang.On hang-out style escalation, there are a bunch of ways this can go, but here’s one example:
  • She comes over and you give her a brief tour of the place



  • The two of you sit out on a patio or back porch and drink and chat



  • You invite her in for a movie, and up to your room to watch it where the TV is



  • You snuggle into bed and tell her to get under the covers with you with snacks and refreshments next to the bed on a nightstand while you watch the film



  • You escalate touch more and more under the covers until you’re kissing, and take it from there


    • Another approach:
  • Have her come over, plop down on the couch with her to chat



  • As she gets more comfortable, tell her to scoot over close to you because it feels like she’s on the other side of a river or something (assuming she kept a gap between you)



  • Gradually increase how much you’re touching her while increasing how much she’s investing



  • Ratchet up the tension to the point where she’s shooting hints and escalation windows at you... then kiss her


    • Get your timing right, and along with the other two pieces being in place you can make the “hang out” go down smoothly and sexually quite reliably.

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    EXCEPTIONS TO THE RULESWorth keeping in mind: some situations, like
    • University dorms
    • Off-campus housing around universities
    • Young professional apartment / party buildings
    • Group trips abroad, like those of STA Travel or Under 30 Experiences
    • Major vacation spots, like Cancun, Los Cabos, or Koh Phangan
    ... and similar places the hang out is much more likely to be the normal date, and you should go almost religiously for this and not try to go grab coffee dates or drinks at a dive bar or whatnot unless necessary, as it doesn’t feel congruent with the situation / locale.Again, that’s because of the common features of:
  • Relatively local environment (everyone’s from peripheral social circle)



  • Lots of leisure time and a relaxed pace of life (relative to elsewhere)



  • Less money or access or motivation to get to non-hang out date spots


    • If you’re not in one of these choice locations for easy hanging out, you’ve got a bit more work cut out for you, but that’s why I went into the detail I did with the post above (I’m just assuming you don’t have it easy – if you do, hopefully this was a good read but you won’t need to be nearly as exact about this stuff).And some environments, like super fast-paced cities, can be less conducive to the hang out than others – you’ll have a much easier time setting up hang outs in laid back beach towns than you will in fast-paced super metropolises (yet it can still be done in these places too, especially if you’re really nailing it on value and attainability while building up investment).Also for our “exceptions” list are women, like
  • Professional women with fast-paced lives



  • Women who view you firmly as a boyfriend prospect



  • Women you haven’t built up enough investment from yet and who aren’t otherwise sold on you


    • ... who will be difficult or impossible to get to come hang out with you no matter how good you are.So, be flexible. In some instance, the hang out will be the better choice. In others, a more standard casual first date is superior. (and I still can’t think of a time when the traditional dinner-date-at-a-fancy-restaurant date is the best choice for accomplishing anything)
    SOMETIMES YOU WANT TO BE FRIENDSWhen you’re first starting out, being friends is the worst place in the world for you to be, because the friend zone is like a black hole you get sucked into from which there is no escape.Two people staring at each other waiting for the magic show to start and it just never ever does.Yet, as you become increasingly attractive, you find you run into the quality problem of girls finding you tooattractive... and then getting too nervous, because they don’t want to mess up with you, or behaving too rigidly, awkward, or conservatively around you and you having difficulty getting them to put down their walls and just let things happen.This is the point when you start becoming “just friends” with girls again... only this time, you’re a sexual friend, who makes demands and gets her investing, and times his hanging out with her – and the advances he makes on her throughout that hang out – like a pro.That’s when you reach the point where girls who are seeing you have guys who want to date them ask them if they’re seeing anyone, and they tell them, “I have a friend.”It’s an ambiguous response to anyone who isn’t plugged in – but it’s clear as day to everybody else:“There’s a guy I hang out with... and sleep with.”You can always transition that into a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship later on if you want to by gradually revealing the sides of yourself that she’d love to see in a boyfriend, and gradually letting her rope you into doing more boyfriend-girlfriend stuff... if it’s what you want.
    But being the guy who’s just a cool, sexy, strong friend who leads and she follows and he just makes the stars align just right for them to get together is perhaps the ultimate pinnacle of laid back “it just happened” game, and it’s a style that every guy I know with a high notch count has more or less down cold.It means avoiding the three (3) mistakes most guys make here:
  • Staying platonic



  • Getting needy



  • Jumping the gun


    • ... and doing things the effective way:
    1. Being exciting, not “friendly”
    2. Escalating her investment
    3. Getting the timing right
    When you’re newer, and not in a hang out-conducive spot like college or a vacation, still focus on getting girls out on simpler, more casual dates. You can’t get every girl out on hang out dates, no matter how smooth you are, and dates where you meet outside and only end up at yours once the girl is primed and ready are easier to run from a “Okay, what do I do next?” standpoint than ones where you start at home, stay at home, and end at home and don’t have those clear transition points to pass through to help you know when to escalate and when not to.If you’re a bit more advanced and looking for an easier edge though – or if you’re in university or on a group tour overseas or on a cruise or in some other situation where you and a bunch of similarly-aged folks are all smashed together into close quarters with a fair amount of downtime / leisure time to kill – give this a shot. It can be a refreshingly laid back and casual way to sleep with girls who are into you that removes most of the pressure of the “going out on a date” scenario (and some of the boyfriend-like connotations that go with it).
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