Tuesday, 3 March 2015
Guy-Friend-Zoned..: A Man's Worst Nightmare
This was a guy who took her out to walk :got drenched by the rain on his way back home in Lagos and had frozen over. There, the guy professed to her that he would satisfy all her needs. At the moment when he said that, she briefly asked herself, "Huh. Could I have sex with this guy?" Her answer was no, it'd be weird. He was her friend.
And then she said something that really stood out:
"I like him as a friend. We can talk about anything. I'm like his guy friend. And he's like my girlfriend."
I felt for this poor fella's misfortune: relegated to the position of, essentially, girlfriend. A sexless, masculinity-devoid excuse of a man, who willingly (though no doubt reluctantly) set his manh**d aside to continue spending time with a woman.
She still keeps in touch with him, and (when she has a free night) grabs dinner with him (which of course he pays for), and tells him just about everything. And he still seems to be hoping, despite all this, that there's still a chance.
Meanwhile, that girl goes over to another guys place, pays for almost all the food they eat together, cooks for , helps him clean and do laundry, and there's this guy texting her, hoping to get somewhere.
What's he doing wrong, and how have I not made the same mistakes?
Catch Me on that in the next POST»»»