How To Ask A Girl Out: Strike While The Iron's Hot

hat mistake, of course, is the mistake of waiting to ask a girl out until it's too late. In other words, the guy who's sitting around, biding his time, waiting for the "perfect moment"... and then of course he ends up waiting forever, because the "perfect moment" never arrives. How often have you had a girl you really liked, that you were waiting for the "perfect moment" to ask out? Probably pretty often, right? If you're like I used to be back in school, you probably have 1 or 2 girls at all times that you're just waiting for the right moment for... and you might very well end up waiting on that moment forever. On top of that, because attraction has an expiration date, the longer you wait to make something happen with a woman, the lesser her attraction for you becomes -- and the more likely she is to be closed off to doing anything with you. Well, new news: women don't wait around forever. They've got options. Competition's fierce. What that means for you is, if you wait around, you don't get the girl. That means, you ought to ask girls out soon. Like, as soon as you realize you like them, just about, you ask them out. Not a week after you decide you like a girl; not a month later. You ask her out within a few days of realizing you'd like to ask her out -- preferably, you ask her out within a few minutes of realizing you'd like to ask her out. The less time elapses between the moment you realize you'd like to ask a girl out, and the moment you start your feet moving to go over to talk to her and ask her out, the higher the likelihood is that both (A) you ask her out at all, ever, and (B) she says "yes." And I know, that's a little intimidating -- especially if she's really cute and you like her a lot. "Because," you might ask yourself, "what if she says 'no?'" But here's something else to think about -- what if you never ask her? How many days and nights will you spend tearing yourself up inside just thinking about her wondering, fantasizing, dreaming -- when all you had to do was ask? Here's what asking right away does for you: It greatly increases the odds you get her while she's still receptive to you It gets you an answer, now, definitively, so you aren't left wondering forever It allows you to start actually spending time with her, if she says "yes," instead of spending time thinking about her -- much less fun It starts getting you experience and starts training you to have an easier and easier time talking to girls and asking them out. At worst, asking a girl out right away compels you to realize that a girl saying "no" isn't the end of the world. And at best... you end up with your dream girl. See why this is a good thing?