So what do you do if attraction is a fast-vanishing thing?
Attraction Has an Expiration Date
Pay attention to what women are telling you. This goes for both verbal and nonverbal cues. Look at her eyes – is she looking at you excitedly? Look at her body language – is she leaning in? Listen to her words – is she asking you where you live, or whether you have roommates, or how far away your place is? These are all signs she wants you to move things forward, fast.
Shoot first, ask questions later. If you're not sure whether a girl wants you to move things forward or not – try. Trying and failing won't set you back too much; she'll just know you mean business. But not trying – that kills your chances, because it lets her attraction expire. Always err on the side of action over inaction, especially when you're not sure which way to go. Better to try and fail and learn than never try at all and never know and never improve.
Always be moving forward. Something I was very guilty of for a long time, and that I see a lot of guys perpetually are, was of ending up in these situations where you aren't moving forward with the girl, and just hovering there for a long time. Women see this for what it is: stalling. Stalling just gives women time to feel disappointed and let their attraction expire. The instant an interaction starts feeling stagnant, you've been there too long. Take bold action and move things forward.
Beat attraction to the expiration date. It makes such a colossal difference in your interactions; I can't stress doing it enough. Women will be glad you capitalized on their attraction before it expired – and so will you!
Wishing you many speedy interactions and a 0% expiration rate.
